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Duped by a Borderline? Now What?
Do you feel duped by a Borderline after a ghosting, discard, or BPD Breakup? Now what? Did the BPD Ex blame you? Shame you?
I respond to a commenter who is in denial, feels duped, tries to tell me what to do (say) or not do (not say) He believes he is so right and I am so wrong.
It is reasonable to use whatever tone I choose. I put up with endless abuse on this channel. So, I called this man out. If you donât like this tone, you likely are relating too much to this lost and not healthy communication from the commenter.
I hope you listen to the relevance of my information. I am not bullying the commenter – he is actually the bully. I can choose, in an unhealthy communication with me, my tone and my boundaries. Iâm not here to be anyoneâs punching bag!
If you agree with me as a deleted comment expressed but then accused me of bullying, you have missed the disrespectful toxic communication of the commenter I responded to with blunt truth.
I make no apology for my tone and 100% stand by what the educative content is contained herein – period! You can learn from this or shut it off – always your choice.
Are you feeling duped and could you also be in a very painful denial about what you need to know more about? Many BPD Exes are suffering terribly feeling duped is understandable but you made your own choices.
Judge me as the original commenter did and the subsequent commenter. So, now I am not open to comments on this video. The purpose of this video is not me being a doormat nor me âbullyingâ
I am usually very compassionate as I am in parts of this video. I do not have to suffer gladly a belligerent man or woman here.
https://ajmahari.ca/sessions – Sessions with A.J.
https://ajmahari.ca/podcasts A.J.âs Podcasts
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