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Can chewing gum help with resting bitch face? The very candid Uncle Lazer joins Blaine to expand the dating horizons of the resilient VAL! Today, we discuss DATE ME DOCS (yikes), dating older divorcees, getting banned from the dating apps, and borrowing your friend’s dog to meet men! PLUS: Lazer shares his fondness for breast milk and how he almost married a witch! To get in touch with the wonderful Val, reach out to her at chiefcuddleofficer@gmail.com and to check out her writing visit her Substack at
https://valbrains.substack.com/
Chapters:
00:00 – Teaser & Introduction
00:56 – “I Don’t Give Off Single Energy”
02:27 – Wants Marriage & Kids (But Not a Traditional Guy)
03:11 – Gym Boyfriends & Why the Gym Isn’t Working
03:49 – Pickleball: Austin’s Dating Goldmine
04:40 – Banned From Dating Apps
05:23 – The “Date Me Doc” Explained
06:33 – Why the Date Me Doc Turns Men Off
08:03 – Dating Should Feel Fun, Not Like Homework
09:44 – Efficiency vs Chemistry
11:00 – Meeting Men IRL (Hikes, Meetups & Advice)
12:32 – QR Codes, Mini Date Cards & Bold Moves
15:34 – Waiting for Him to Make the Move
17:21 – Coming Off Too Serious
18:32 – Age Gaps & Dating Younger Men
20:21 – Divorced Men, Kids & Green Flags
24:03 – Attraction vs Compatibility
26:05 – Uncle Lazer’s Wild Relationship Story
29:13 – Being a Hermit Isn’t Helping
31:29 – CrossFit, Classes & Male-Heavy Spaces
34:03 – What “Resilience” Actually Means
37:11 – Why 35+ Matters If You Want Kids
38:31 – Fixing RBF: Smile, Hair & Signals
43:43 – Ultimatums, Timing & Not Wasting Years